Are you constantly amazed at your innate ability to always have your home styled to perfection? Me neither. While I’d like to pretend that every room in my house is magazine-worthy, I’d be lying. This past weekend, I was scrolling through Instagram for a little interior inspiration and saw many beautiful family rooms, perfectly planned kitchens, and entrancing outdoor patios. With each new space, I found myself focusing on the power of accessories: a fluffy fern next to the front console, plump pillows and cozy throws atop the sofa, a pretty bouquet of peonies at the bar inviting me over for a cocktail. Many of these rooms have been styled by a professional stager or stylist. I swear they’re like Mary Poppins with an endless supply of wooden trays, mirrors, vases, books, and greenery in their bagful of tricks. These finishing touches help set the scene for a life we all aspire to live.
For designers and homeowners alike, accessories are a way to express one’s personality. Or, as Michael Kors eloquently states, “I’ve always thought of accessories as the exclamation point of a woman’s outfit.” They make your house different from your mom’s and your sister’s, your neighbors’ and your friends’. The best thing about accessories is that when your taste changes, you don’t have to replace all your furniture; you simply swap out those tired and dated metallic tassel throw pillows for something that fits your new aesthetic!
Styling truly is an art form. It is about balancing shape, form, line, and design. It requires a certain amount of patience and finesse; multiple trips to favorite home stores, years of collecting, and lots of trial and error. I have spent days styling clients’ homes and enjoyed every minute of it. You can too! While there is a bit of magic involved, styling is a science that can be learned and practiced over time. So, clear off your bookshelves, entry tables, and fireplace mantles! Here are my tips for styling like a pro:
Bookshelves can be an intimidating and tricky spot to style for several reasons. First, there is a lot of surface area to cover. It can very easily feel too heavy, too sparse, cluttered, or boring. The secret is finding balance and adding interest without overdoing it.
The table in your foyer is not there just to throw keys and collect mail. This piece is the equivalent of a first date, so don’t blow it! It should be a beautiful glimpse into your personality and that of your home.
The mantle above the fireplace naturally commands attention. If it’s too sparse or – how do I say this – ugly, it will command negative attention. What we are aiming for is the wow factor, or at the very least, a tasteful display that garners praise from your design enthusiast mother-in-law. How does one create such a unicorn? By following my simple formula, you will have confidence in keeping your mantle fresh and festive all year long.
There you have it: my tried and true formulas to styling your home! Keep in mind that styling is a fluid process. When Kelly and I style a home, we take things off shelves and move them around, stand back and look, edit out pieces, add in new items, stand back and look, shift items around, and on and on, until we achieve the desired look. We pull things from all over the house, so don’t be afraid to go shopping in your own home before spending tons of money on unnecessary tchotchkes. The holidays are a great time to experiment with your new styling skills so go to town! Feeling stuck? Take a minute to browse through your favorite design publications for some good ol’ fashioned inspiration. Above all else, try and have some fun with it. Lord knows we could all use some fun these days.